YOU HAVE TO CRY ;-(

It’s just a few weeks ago (or should I say days?) that we heard of a case where a fetus was found wrapped in a polythene bag and dumped in Moi University- an abortion! Without questioning, this was an act by one of the university’s student- a female of course. Criticism and condemnation of this act was spread over on the social media- especially on twitter. To start with, you may realize that maybe whoever did it comes from a very humble background and maybe she has been influenced by some people. In all aspects, when one joins a college, they are usually very humble, cool, simple- name all the positive attributes but this is only valid for some time. I remember one of my lecturers saying the when people are joining college they come with long dresses reaching almost to the ankle and such but they suddenly happen after sometime. We must admit that teens especially in tertially institutions are having sex just like food and in this some find themselves with unexpected pregnancies. Since one is still a student and not ready to raise a kid, they opt to ‘flash’ but the question is who is responsible? Both the girlfriend and the boyfriend are responsible.

A wrong is a wrong no matter its degree. This was just one instance that leaked to the public, what about all the others incidences that we do not hear about? Trust me they are a thousand in one and you meet these same ‘beautiful’ ladies in the streets in high heels swinging their waists. They will also brag of how they got rid of that ‘disturbance’ not knowing the fate awaiting them. When one gets an unwanted pregnancy, the best thing is to admit that in happened and accept is as a reality instead of involving in blame game. Often, the fathers will always escape the game by saying the pregnancy wasn’t theirs- this indeed pushes the lady into doing dangerous acts of abortion. But what I need to tell them is; all that goes around comes around. You can go ahead and abort, but remember one day you might cry for lacking another child and even damaging your womb, you will cry forever seeing other ladies with beautiful kids, I mean you better get the kid and take it for adoption.