WHOSE IS THE MARRIAGE BILL?

Everyone (especially men) is happy all over the towns and streets simply because the Marriage Bill was approved by the parliament to go to the final stage where the President should put the sign to approve it or decline. As usual, women have so far complained that it’s indeed a very unfair way of living such a life of bringing other wives without their consent. If you are a fan of the parliamentary proceedings, you can try to remember how the MPs were very ‘energetic and enthusiastic’ saying that it’s an African culture a husband not to ask for a woman’s consent in whatever circumstances. I want to apply a simple logic. We all understand who the Members of Parliament are, right? It goes without saying that they are wealthy. In their state, they would be in a better position to have as many wives as they wish- after all, they can take care of them. Now, think of this village man who is so happy about the marriage bill that men are now not required to seek consent of the first wife in case they wish to bring another one. This particular man is even having problems to feed his one wife and two children. Can he even afford or dare to bring another wife? In my own view, this bill is only going to favor the rich- those who can afford to take care of many wives. We have known our leaders for favoring themselves and I would term this as their own favor too in the name of ‘men’ and ‘African culture. Remember, I’m an African too.